Wednesday, November 7, 2007

What I Learned From Eavesdropping

This is my first time submitting to Robert Hruzek's "What I Learned From..." series. I happened upon this challenge when reading my classmate, Eric Peterson's blog. Check them both out. Some engaging intuitive writing.

Shhh! If you listen real hard and turn the live stream of NPR down, you can hear the conversation down the hall. One of the benefits of literally having an open door policy. I don't think it is too much of a stretch that a blogger would be prone to eavesdropping. I'm still new to blogging, but some things are obvious. Blog reading is kind of like eavesdropping.

A conversation took place outside my office that went like this...
Sarcastically, "Last I knew our meeting was in room 102."
Even more sarcastic reply, "Yeah, that's great; last you knew."

I know the situation is often not just how you would like it. Lets face it, things are rarely just the way you like. So much is said in the tone we choose to use. The above example really portrays an underlying reason for the degradation of morale. It is so easy to hop on a soap box when you know there are others who share your opinion.

Could the two people in the above scenario have chosen more wisely? There is a theme of choice that is becoming evident here. You can choose your tone, your conversations, even your body language. As the saying goes, "Pick your battles." You can pick your conversation. Will you choose to be a part of this one?

Have you eavesdropped recently (If you don't comment to this blog you're eavesdropping right now!)? Did you learn anything? Have you made the choice to converse with a positive tone and with the right people? I'm curious. Feel free to jump in at anytime.

7 comments:

Bob said...

Hey, I found you!

Wow, Bob; you really ARE new! Hey, good post and great observation. You should check out Ellen Weber's Brain Based Business blog. She talks a lot about how tone can shape the workplace - and our lives for that matter.

Thanks for participating in this month's project! Hope to see in the Middle Zone again soon! Oh, and thanks for the link in the sidebar...

Eric Peterson said...

Another great post. You are on fire! I've really been enjoying your blog.

I've been reading a lot of Ann Michael's blog. She has been doing a series called "Sticky Situations:" She did one on eavesdropping. Check it out!

http://managetochange.typepad.com/main/2007/10/sticky-situat-3.html

Bob Loch said...

Thanks Bob! I'll check out Ellen Weber's blog. I love the idea of your project. Fun and interactive!

Bob Loch said...

@Eric - Thanks for reading. You really gave me the inspiration. Love your creativity and insite. Thanks for all the help in class tonight.

Joanna said...

Hi Bob

I don't think that blog reading is eavesdropping (which has very negative connotations for me) - I think it's reading.

It's reading something that someone has offered for me to read, asked me to look over and think about.

Entering into the conversation is fun, but with so many blogs out there you can't join them all. Although I guess you managed to provoke me into joining this one!

Joanna

Bob Loch said...

@ Joanna - Thanks for participating! You make a good point, eavesdropping does seem to have a negative connotation associated with it.

While I don't agree with putting a glass up to a closed door, I think it is quite alright to pay attention to our surroundings and listen in on public conversations such as blogs.

In part my motivation for this blog post came from reading Steve Farber's, The Radical Edge. http://www.stevefarber.com

Timothy Johnson said...

Bob, I agree and diagree with Joanna... eavesdropping does have a negative connotation, but it doesn't have to. And reading a blog without commenting is kind of like eavesdropping. Sometimes people make it painfully easy to eavesdrop (per your story about your coworkers). I've also relayed some stories about things I've overheard. If people are going to be so generous with providing me inspiration, I figure it would be rude to just ignore them :)